You never know until you try. Assumption only leaves u jaded with waves of questions beating your thinking and reasoning. Hmmm! What If?s That’s gonna be what will start most of your utterances. Well a wise young man said a few weeks ago. It’s better living with a known reality, however how bad it is, than living with a unanswered inquisition.
You see a fine girl at the bar, and think “should I ask her out?” You spend half on the night working on an opening. Then just when you want to make your move, you tell yourself, “maybe she’s her with someone.” or “maybe she’ll turn me down.” C’mmon it’s half the night and she’s been alone.
You got a business proposal. You have worked on it for long and just need to walk into that office and make your offer, but then you say “maybe someone else has offered the service” or “maybe they won’t accept my offer”
We can never know until we try. Ask her out! Make the offer! At worst you are left where you were with the knowledge that you gave it a shot but it didn’t work out.