Many at times, especially after falling victim of a situation, circumstance, action or person, we tend to blame the other party (opposition or cause) for putting us in such a position. But the truth is that we are equally to blame for our fall. I stumbled across this piece and think you should read it too:
“If your enemy is in firing range, so are you!”
So don’t blame anyone, because you had the same chance and opportunity in putting the opposition in your position; or averting the thing that led to your fall. So open your eyes! Look again! You had it too! Just have to play it faster next time.